Partygirl Advertising Guidelines

INTRODUCTION

We LOVE Partygirls!

And we would never do anything to get in the way of an adult Partygirl enjoying the benefits of having a great date. Or two. Or more!

In fact, getting dates is what The Partygirl List is all about!

However, because not everyone sees things as we do, there are some lines in the sand we better not cross.

In other words, we need to keep it clean.

But what, exactly, is clean?

Ask 100 people, you'll get 100 different answers.  And all of them are arbitrary.  That is, any rules made up somewhere to define what is acceptable and what isn't are purely man-made rules and presumably reflect the sentiment of that particular, local society.

Of course, with this internet thing, all Eggport Lists, including The Partygirl List, have global reach, and are available to all of the local societies in the world!  So whose set of rules do we use to determine what is acceptable?

Simple. We use our own rules!

Why and how they got to be our rules is a subject best saved for another discussion, but suffice it to say they are based on sound marketing, cultural, anthropological, and, of course, legal considerations.

And hey, it's our house! You wanna play here, you gotta play by the house rules, right? That's only fair.

Remember, we do love you.  Sometimes it's gonna be tough love, but we are all in this together so let the party begin!

 

IN GENERAL

Let's start by understanding what's the deal.

In general, the purpose of The Partygirl List is to help adult Partygirls find a date.

And the best way to get a date is to show off your assets!  And that is where The Partygirl List come in.

What's a Partygirl?  You.  A girl who just wants to have some fun and enjoy the benefits of a date. Or more.

What is "or more"?  That is up to you and your date.  It might be sex.  It might be a long term relationship.  It might be marriage.  It might be ten minutes in his car.  Once you hook up, whatever happens between two or more consenting adults is none of our business.

What is our business?  We are a simple, personals classified advertising website.  You (and other Partygirls) pay us a nominal fee to publish your personal ad, the content of which you create yourself and send to us by filling out an ad submission form in Step 2.

And what is a date?  That is the person (or persons) that responds to your ad that you, if you choose, hook up with.

To be clear, whatever you and your date do once you hook up with is none of our business.  Nor is it our responsibility.  Be sure you completely understand that before placing an ad on The Partygirl List!

That means don't come crying to us if your date doesn't turn out the way you expected.  If you are going to advertise on the internet be sure you are wearing your big girl pants, OK?

And that brings us to:

 

THE RULES

Don't you hate fine print? We sure do.  So you won't find any here.  Just common sense stuff that will help keep us both in business.

Rule Number 1:  Adults Only!  You absolutely must me at least eighteen (18) years old to place an ad on The Partygirl List - No Exceptions!

OK, there is one exception.  If where you live the local laws require you to be older than 18 to view items of an explicit sexual nature, then you must be that same older age to place an ad on The Partygirl List.  An example of those places include the U.S. States of Alabama, Maine, Nebraska, and Wyoming, where you need to be at least 21 years old.  These may not be the only places with a higher age limit, so check that out before you get yourself in trouble.

And you can get into trouble - real trouble - if you lie about your age, so don't even think about that, OK?  And if you really are under 18, don't let anyone trick you or force you into lying about that.  If they do, tell someone, even us, and we will help you (we are firm but we are also cool.)  Underage girls placing ads on The Partygirl List is serious stuff and a huge no-no.  So much so that it is:

Rule Number 2:  No Child Porn!  We will absolutely not tolerate child porn or underage anything on our websites - Absolute Zero Tolerance.  When you place an ad you need to swear, certify, affirm, and promise that you are at least 18 years old.  We will ask your age and we'll start off trusting that you have told us the truth.  But if we get the least tiny bit suspicious that you are not yet 18, we may ask for some proof of age before we publish your ad.

On the other hand, if you are really older than you tell us, well, that will be something that you may need to resolve with your date, but we don't care - we love all Partygirls no matter the age, as long as they are over 18.

Rule Number 3:  Age Required.  Your age is required to be in your ad.  Does it need to be your real age?  Again, as long as you are honestly 18 or older, and the age you place in your ad is 18 or older, the rest is none of our business.

Rule Number 4:  Full Nudity Permitted.  Nude photos are allowed, for the most part, but some stuff is not.  This requires some discussion and clarification, so pay attention here.  It is extremely important that you understand this.

It is no secret that your sensuality will be a factor in getting dates in some of the Classified Sections here on The Partygirl List.  And many Partygirls may choose to express their sensuality through artistic, erotic, and provocative nude photography, including full nudity.  This is certainly not required by us!  How you present yourself is totally up to you.

While one might think that nudity would be more prevalent in, say, ads from independent escorts or webcam girls and so on, and less likely, for example, in ads from traditional singles or pick-a-price dates, we have no rules about where nudity is or is not appropriate.  It is 100% up to you.

Needless to say, any nude photos you include in your ad, and for that matter any photos whatsoever that you include in your ad, must be of you.

Do not feel compelled to include nudity in your ad.  We allow it, only because nature's work can be a beautiful thing to behold and if tastefully presented it can often express what words could never do.

OK.  Sometimes a doctor's work can be a beautiful thing to behold, as well.

In any event, the choice to include nude photography is yours.  If you do feel the need to include nude photos of yourself, however, it must be tasteful.

What is tasteful nudity?  You know, sometimes it is classic works by Ellen von Unwerth, Helmut Newton or Todd Essick.  And sometimes it is the raw intensity of an evocative, sweaty self-portrait taken with a cell phone and a mirror.  Who are we to judge?

But judge we must.  And that is where Rule Number 5 comes into play.

Rule Number 5:  No Porn.  Actually there is a whole list of no's in Rule 5 - no pornography, obscenity, vulgarity, indecency, or bestiality.

You may be confused as to the difference between Rule 4 and Rule 5, as there is a good deal of overlap between them, so let's go over that.  One problem is there are always gray areas when you try to define pornography, obscenity, vulgarity, indecency, and so on, especially when it comes to sensual and erotic photography of women.  So we will make judgment calls on what is and is not acceptable.  But you can help.  It should be obvious when something is blatantly nasty, and you know we won't let that appear on The Partygirl List.  So don't try to slip that past us, as we review each and every ad before we publish it.

Some stuff is marginal.  In that case we may contact you to allow you to tame it down just a bit.  But if you use common sense we should have no problem.

For sure, the following is not allowed - to reiterate the first two rules, no child porn or anything remotely underage.  There will be no dialog on that.  It is not permitted. Period.

Nor is anything blatantly pornographic, including images depicting any kind of sexual activity.  Full nudity is one thing; depiction of sexual activity is another and not permitted.

Likewise, nothing obscene or indecent.

What is pornographic, obscene or indecent, you ask?  Great question, by the way.  Really, a question for the ages with answers that define a society.  Kind of an easy answer for us, though.  Remember, we are serious defenders of free speech and in no way do we want to censor your ad.  We are giving you as much freedom as you could reasonably need (and that we can allow) to get the kind of dates you want.  But some stuff is over the line and here is how you can figure out how we determine which is which.

There are two ways to present your sexual, sensual self - the fun way, with a redeeming purpose, and a morbid, patently offensive way that by reasonable standards would only appeal to a prurient interest.

We love the first way and that we do permit.  Show your playful side.  Your sexy side.  Demonstrate that you are the hottest Partygirl ever.  Make potential dates want to line up to spend some fun time with you.  Whatever section you have chosen for your ad, don't hold back!  See, if your potential date doesn't feel your vibe when reading your ad, that deal is over and they will move on to the next ad.  So we give you plenty of leeway to communicate your special vibe to make sure you get their attention while they are looking.  We let you show them what you've got!

But we will not allow the kind of morbid, patently offensive photos that only appeal to the most base, purient interests.

Sexy photos are OK; gross, deviant, or just unhealthy photos are not.  Lust is good - you want them to want you; lewd is not.

Again, if it is just a photo of you, even a very sexy nude photo, that is fine.  But if it shows any sexual acts, bodily functions, intimacy with animals, or stuff that would make most folks go "Ewww..." then leave it out.

Now, we know that fun comes in all flavors.  And we would never judge anyone for their own preferences or fetishes, even the "Ewww" ones.  But please understand, if that is your idea of a fun date, you need to find a way to convey that in your ad without the aid of graphic photography.  We'll even let you suggest it, sort of, in your description, but save the actual explicit details for when you have direct communication with your potential date, OK?

To be very clear on Rules 4 and 5, full nudity is fine, and can be suggestive, erotic, evocative, and even extremely sexy.  But it can't be crude, gross, or deviant, and cannot show any sexual activity.  Here's a tip: If you have to think about whether we'll accept it or not, we probably will not.  But please feel free to ask us first if you are not sure.  As always, we are here to help you get a date, and we are happy to help you work through those gray areas.

Rule Number 6: No profanity.  Watch your language.  You can describe pretty much anything you want - we have no prohibition on that (subject to Rule 5.)  If, for example, you have a passion or talent for certain sexual activity, don't be shy!  Tell potential dates what you like or what they can expect.  Come right out and say it, no code words needed.

But try to be a little classy, OK?

This can be confusing, because we certainly do allow you to explicitly describe whatever you feel the need to describe, using whatever words you feel necessary - no limit.  You know, that Free Speech thing.  Even if you need to say something vulgar for effect, go for it!  We simply ask that you not also use profane language if there is no real need.

To make this very clear, Rule 5 prohibits the extremely gross, deviant stuff no matter what, but Rule 6 does permit vulgarity, but only if it really serves a purpose and is not simply gratuitous.  You can do Free Speech and good taste at the same time, right?

Rule Number 7:  No hating!  Your ad is supposed to be about you, with the purpose of getting a date.  And to get a date you don't need to say anything hateful or defamatory about anyone else, and we will not permit that.  So, no ethnic or racial slurs, no insults, and no threats.  Be nice, OK?

Rule Number 8:  Nothing Illegal.  We will not accept ads for anything illegal.  That includes offering for sale counterfeit goods, stolen goods, pirated media or software, drugs, bodily fluids or parts, stuff you don't have the right to sell, and, in general, bad stuff.  We'll have a complete list in our Terms and Conditions, but you get the idea.

And, of course, prostitution.  Escort services, yes; prostitution no.  Can't advertise prostitution on The Partygirl List.

Why?  Because, for the most part it is illegal.  And since Rule 8 says you can't advertise anything illegal, you can't advertise sex in exchange for money.  Period.

Never mind that it is the oldest profession, and is freely enjoyed virtually everywhere, even by some who publicly condemn it.  It is illegal here in Florida where we are based, and that makes it prohibited on The Partygirl List.  We are genuinely sorry about that, being the Freedom lovers we are, but no ads offering outright prostitution can be accepted at present.

On the other hand, we have no objection whatsoever to you advertising your time, companionship, conversation, and comforting ways for whatever price the market will bear.

Likewise, ads for nude modeling, stripping, private dancing, body rubs and massage, and the like are fine.

In fact, that is why we are here, isn't it?

Point is, if you are looking for a date to party with, whatever kind of party, The Partygirl List is the place to advertise, so long as you are not advertising that your date will receive sexual favors in return for payment specifically for those favors.  Got it?

Now, if sparks fly after you've hooked up with your date, and whatever happens, happens, that's nobody's business.  But you can't state in your ad that it definitely will happen if a payment to you is made.  That is what an offer for prostitution is, and that is prohibited.  You may wish to reiterate that in your ad.

Here is just a suggestion for the wording, and we may require this if your ad gets too close to the line:

"By contacting me you agree that money exchanged, if any, is intended for time and companionship services only. Anything else that may occur thereafter, including any sexual activity, is a matter of personal choice between us, consenting adults of legal age, and is not contracted for, nor is it requested to be contracted for. This is not, in any way, an offer of prostitution."

That's it.  Eight simple and sensible Rules.  Rules that are far more liberal than those free community listing or alternative newspaper sites.  And there is more good news, too!  Read on...

 

THE GOOD NEWS

The Rules above are not too bad, are they?  And remember all the good stuff we do for you - more than anyone else!

Exclusive Website ~ To start, The Partygirl List is just for Partygirls!  It is clean.  Open.  Simple.  Uncluttered.  Easy to read.  There are no ads for used bicycles, dog walkers, computer repair or garage sales.

No Crap ~ Since all the ads here are paid ads, visitors to The Partygirl List know you are real.  They know the freeloaders and riff-raff are eliminated.  Visitors also know that scammers, spammers, and con artists tend to avoid posting on websites where they can be tracked by the credit card they used to pay for the ad, so fraud and crime is seriously minimized.  All of that is great for you!

Great Looking Ad ~ You not only get your own Listing in the proper Classified Section here on The Partygirl List, but you also get a full page Partygirl Display Ad at no additional charge.  And what a Display Ad it is!  Since there is no limit on how much you can say about yourself, there is plenty of room to say everything you wish and to tell a story that is compelling enough to give potential dates a reason to contact you!

You may have noticed that from the time a visitor first sees The Partygirl List entry page, we do a pretty good job of getting visitors primed, excited and eager to read your ad.  The ample space in your Display Ad gives you plenty of opportunity to close the deal.

Multiple Listings Available ~ You are free, of course, to buy listings in more than one Section if they are applicable.

Free Link To Your Website ~ If you have your own website, feel free to include a link to it in your ad!  Obviously if it is a scam site or if it installs malware and the like, we'll remove the link.  But if it is a legitimate site, include it in your Display Ad with our compliments.  Bonus: The more inbound links to your site from legitimate websites like The Partygirl List, the higher your ranking in the search engines.  Many folks buy ads on our Eggport Lists sites just for that valuable "Google juice!"

Free Links To Your Video ~ If you have any videos online, be sure to include links to them in your ad, too, no extra charge.

Include Up To 12 Photos ~ You know how important your photos are, right?  Those photos typically make or break you getting a date.  You gotta have photos.  We include all your photos - up to 12 and at a good size size, too - on the same page as your display ad.  Potential dates don't have to click and click and click on tiny thumbnails to see all of your pictures, and then wind up being annoyed with you after finding that each click has opened another new window on their computer!  We keep everything in your Display Ad - all the big pictures, all your info, everything - on one awesome page.  Yes, it is more expensive for us to do that for you, but we know that tiny pictures and constant clicking will not get you anywhere.  Oh... we'll watermark your photos for you, too, if you wish, to help eliminate others from using your pictures.

Your Space Is Your Space ~ We promise that there will never be any other advertising on the page with your Display Ad - not even a list of the other classified sections here on The Partygirl List.  You are paying for eyeballs here, and we are not going to put anything else on your page that will pull those eyeballs away from your ad.  Think about it.  Why would anyone pay good money to have a display ad online, but then allow that ad to be surrounded by competing ads? That would be absurd, wouldn’t it?  We will not do that to you.  Your page is your page and yours alone.  Sell your Partygirl self!  Sell your service or product.  But don’t spend your money to help someone else sell their stuff on a page you paid for!  That’s nuts.

Your Ad Looks Great Everywhere ~ The Partygirl List and your ad are optimized to look great on all devices.  Whether your potential date is viewing your ad on a cell phone, tablet, laptop, desktop, or big screen TV, it will display properly!  Our pages adapt to the screen size.  This allows your date to focus on the content of your ad, not their device.  Even our shimmering black borders and that sharp red line at the top of the screen are designed to separate your Display Ad from their browser's menus and such.

Your Ad Cannot Be Flagged ~ This is a biggie!  Unlike those free, community edited classified sites or those who refuse ads with any nudity or "code words," your ad on The Partygirl List can not be flagged for removal by a competitor, an ex, someone having issues, or anyone else.  The First Amendment and our policies (subject to the 8 Rules above) protect your ad from indiscriminate removal.  That alone is worth ten bucks, isn't it?

No Ad Ghosting, Ever ~ We won't lead you to believe your ad has been approved and is live, but then hide it from everyone else in the world but you.  Some of those free sites do that all the time.  We don't.

10 Bucks / 45 Days ~ That is dirt cheap!  The cost to run an ad in most of the Classified Sections of The Partygirl List is $10, and those ads run for a full 45 days.  See the specific prices for all Classified Sections on the Place Your Ad - Step 1 page, but for now most of them are 10 Bucks for 45 Days.  It won't be that cheap forever, but it is today.  And since new ads are placed at the top of the list in most Sections, it is really inexpensive to stay near the top.  And coming soon, ad packages that include several "Bumps" to the top of the list!

Free Edits ~ If you need to change your ad in any way, or even remove it, no problem.  Let us know and it's done.

No Registration Or Fees Required ~ This may be, for you, the most important benefit of all!  There is absolutely no registration requirement or fees whatsoever needed for visitors to look around anywhere on The Partygirl List.  We don't place cookies on computers or track anyone's browsing habits.  Everyone is free to view The Partygirl List anonymously.  Because your potential dates know that browsing The Partygirl List is discreet, it means even more eyeballs seeing your ad - way more!

 

BOTTOM LINE

The Partygirl List is go-to website for girls looking for a date to party with, whatever kind of party that may be.  We censor virtually nothing.  We only ask that you make our job easier by agreeing to abide by the 8 Rules in the Eggport Advertising Guidelines above, as well as abide by all our Terms and Conditions.

Now let's get your ad online!  To agree to the 8 Rules above and return to Step 1, click the button below: